oh no!!!! No, honey, never think that prayer weakens you! Prayer is healing for your soul! You are weakened because like all of us, we exPECT THE PRAYER TO BE ANSWERED IMMEDIATELY!!!!! Marriage is a second job honey, except instead of getting a paycheck, you get respect in return, love, sometimes even kids! You are drained and tired of trying and trying and feeling like nothing is working, but when you give it to the Lord, you will see results. Say, "Jesus, you win! Im tired of fighting this battle that belongs to you, take it, its yours." Just watch and see what He does for you.... be blesses